Terminal 30 should be hot at all times from fuse 37. and also supply power to ECU pin 62.
IF not check fuse 37 for power.
If power is at fuse 37 and terminal 30 of relay?
Jumping terminal 30 and 87 (fused jumper) should provide power to ECU pin 121 and pin 6 of ignition coil. Black/Purple wire.
Good Luck
Terminal 30 on ECU relay is dead. No voltage present at any time.
So if there is no voltage present at fuse 37 is not being supplied through relay by ignition?
Also on the ecu connectors, does anyone have a pinout showing the connector dead on?. I'm rudimentary with electrical schematics so the clearer the better.