While I wait for parts to show up and annoy with other diagnostic questions, I might just spam this discussion a little bit

--actually there's a reason and it is: we are thinking of getting an EV, specifically an ID.Buzz.
Thing is, most consumers have more than one car. Keep/use an ICE or hybrid for the exceptions and dedicate the EV to local use.
There are times I walk to the office in foul weather when I'd rather drive. Why? Because I can't bring myself to abuse an internal combustion engine by cold-starting it, driving it half a mile, and shutting it down, with a repeat later in the day. With an EV I'd have no compunctions about that kind of trip.
I'm not sure how well "having more than one car" generalizes to Europe (writing from there), but I think it
should: as you say, there's such a thing like the right tool for the job. I think an EV could be the right tool for the job, if the job is commuting at a distance that fits in the middle third of its battery --or if it entails mostly city driving.
That said, I have currently that job covered by a petrol city car and it does not make any financial sense to change it with an EV: the purchase price of even an used one is about one order of magnitude too high. So that's that.
Conversely, I drive between SE PA, SW VA, and NE FL on a regular basis. The northern leg is ~450 miles. The southern leg is ~600 miles. I would not want an EV for that. We do make a couple of pit stops on those trips, but they're just long enough to pee and fill the up the fuel tank, and I agree, the "rest and charge" thing is lame.
And that's exactly the use-case I'm planning, despite being suboptimal --the thing is: fuel costs and road taxes over here in Germany (of all places!) have rendered our diesel minibus too expensive for its own sake, whereas we have a photovoltaic array on the garage roof and, despite being small, would easily fill up (empty to full) an ID.Buzz LWB in one and a half sunny days.
For people who only own one vehicle, a PHEV might just be a good compromise. Local trips on battery power, but no range anxiety on longer trips. What bothers me about most of them is all the additional complexity.
I wonder what happened to range extenders... I mean: you'd save a gearbox over a PHEV while retaining the range and ease of "charge" of a gas powered vehicle.