One thing I find puzzling: We have what appear to be identical engines that were once specified (and presumably designed for) 504/507 oils, where around 2018 VAG changed the spec to 508/509. Did did anything in these engines actually change, or did VAG change the oil spec in order to get fractionally lower consumption/CO2 emissions, quite possibly at the expense of engine life?You cannot use VW 50800/50900 oil in current engines that require 50400 or VW 50700 because the lubricating film of 0W20 oil is less stable at high temperatures.
Speed limits are by no means the only factor that affect engine loadings. You've mentioned towing as one, which I certainly agree with, but also consider just driving in the mountains, where on a long up hill grade, your engine load could be just as high at 70 mph as it would be on flat ground at 120 mph or more.This, obviously, is more important in countries without speed limit than in countries with speed limits around 70 mph.
-Uwe-